of the many things that i’ve learned in the past year, acknowledging and realizing that sometimes you aren’t your type’s type is probably the biggest lesson to learn. it may be a bitter reality, but i’m sure most people have been on both sides. there were probably people that have pursued you, but you couldn’t fake those feelings. yeah, it sucks. but to lie and feign attraction is worse. and if i were the person doing the pursuing, i’d much rather have the the recipient reciprocate…(One-sided, unrequited ©). no one likes to be the antagonist… but maybe there is an opportunity to be the villain with a heart of gold.
However, there is no reason to vilify the person who we feel might have spurned us. it isn’t their fault that they don’t like you. you just don’t fit the idea of what they want. just because that person crosses off items on your laundry list of what you want in a romantic interest, doesn’t mean that you have traits that they’re crossing off of their list.
but that’s okay.
no harm… so no reason to be foul.